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Faith & Suicide

“[I] had no idea what the impact of suicide would be on us, nor the death of a child. Suicide had never occurred in the family and it wasn’t in our working vocabulary. So  … it was like in a split second the world had changed.” – Fred Fox

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Harvey Yoder

“O Lord, how long shall I cry for help, and you will not listen? Or cry to you ‘Violence!’ and you will not save?” (Habakkuk 1:2 NRSV)

These words from the Hebrew prophet Habakkuk express the kind of depression and despair a suicidal person must feel, as well as how we feel when someone we love takes their own life. Our every cry is a question. “Why?” “How could this be?” “Why couldn’t God, or I, or someone have done something to keep this from happening?” The emotional suffering experienced by those left behind is enormous.

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This Week's Resources

ONLINE
www.FierceGoodbye.com - The official website for the Third Way Media documentary with links, many additional family survivor stories, statistics, sermons and helps for pastors, and more information on the topic of suicide. In the “Tell Your Story” section of the site dozens of people have shared their own survivor stories.

VIDEO
Fierce Goodbye DVDDVD: Fierce Goodbye: Living in the Shadow of Suicide - Five loving and courageous families take you to the innermost depths of their heartbreak and pain to bring hope and healing to others dealing with the numbing aftereffects of suicide. 

Related Resources

BOOKS
A Mother Held Hostage Barbara Borntrager
 
CD
Chaos of the Heart - A CD for those grieving the loss of a loved one to suicide. Songs, poems, and a message by Walt Wangerin called “Comfort for Those Who Grieve a Suicide.”
 
SUPPORT
1-800-273-TALK - A 24/7 hotline for those in crisis.
Survivors of Suicide 
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention: Survivor Support Groups 
National Board of Certified Counselors - Find a Licensed Professional Counselor
American Psychological Association - Find a Psychologist

Burton's Blog

Suicide Happens

Burton Buller

Suicide, like other unpleasant things, happens. It’s part of the human experience. Not a desirable one, but one that exists, for better or worse. And we are left once again to make the best of an unpleasant, even horrible, situation.
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Next Week

Lasting Marriage. Harvey Yoder, a pastor and counselor with Family Life Resource Center in Harrisonburg, Va., and a regular “My Turn” contributor to Shaping Families is the guest on next week’s program. He wrote a book, Lasting Marriage: The Owner’s Manual which offers personal insights and stories on how to keep love alive through many years of marriage.

Favorite Family Recipes

Apple Rolls

Apple RollsThis recipe comes from Betty Reimer, one of the authors of Mennonite Girls Can Cook. Betty says she has made these bite-sized delectable rolls many times and is often asked for the recipe. The rolls taste especially good when hot out of the oven and dripping with glaze. A delicious coffee break treat!
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