This Week's Program

This week's featured story

Family Stories and Memories

Ervin Stutzman’s father died when he was just three. Many years later when his mother was approaching her own death, Ervin wondered how he could get to know his father better—before his mother died, too. This effort led to writing several engaging fiction books about his family. The first was about his Amish entrepreneur father, Tobias of the Amish. The second was Emma: A Widow among the Amish, about how his mother survived and raised the family after Tobias was killed in a car accident.

Listen - Transcript - Study Guide

Continue Reading

My Turn

This week's My Turn author

Just Sayin'

Emily Ralph

My great-grandfather sold the family farm when my mother was a child. Since then, our family has scattered around the country. As someone who has moved pretty frequently, I often find myself wistful as I listen to my friends reflect on “coming home” to a community or a homestead.

Continue Reading

This Week's Resources

Tobias of the Amish ($15.99 USD / $18.39 CAD). Ervin’s parents lived in Iowa in the 1950s; this first book of fiction is the story of Ervin’s father, an Amish entrepreneur and his business adventures and failures.
 
Emma: A Widow among the Amish ($16.99 USD / $19.54 CAD). The story of Emma is the story of a widow who raises her children in rural Kansas following the death of her husband, and some of the struggles that she faces.
 
Short video of Ervin speaking about the writing and keeping of family stories:
 
Ervin Stutzman’s personal website for books, family news, and photos.
 
Stutzman photos from his family history.
 
Ervin’s Mennonite Church USA blog. Thoughts and musings of Mennonite Church USA executive director, Ervin Stutzman.
 
100 Memoirs – Interview with Ervin Stutzman. Shirley Showalter writes a regular blog and has won several literary awards for her short childhood memoir pieces. Her blog focuses on the writing of memoirs; earlier, she interviewed Ervin Stutzman about the fiction book he wrote about his mother.

Related Resources

BOOKS 
How to Write Your Personal or Family History: (If You Don't Do It, Who Will?)  by Katie Funk Wiebe. Good Books, 2009. $11.95

You Never Gave Me a Name: One Mennonite Woman's Story  Katie Funk Wiebe, with foreword by Wally Kroeker. Herald Press, 2009.  $15.95

To Our Children's Children: Preserving Family Histories for Generations to Come by Bob Greene, Doubleday, 1993. $19.95 

WEBSITES 
Blog by Shirley Showalter on the creating and keeping of memoirs. 

Shirley Showalter’s Top Ten books on writing memoirs  

National Association of Memoir Writers website 

www.lulu.com - Website where you can print and publish your own memoir or family story relatively inexpensively. 

OTHER
Book by Ervin Stutzman that may be of interest to Shaping Families listeners/website visitors:

From Nonresistance to Justice: The Transformation of Mennonite Church Peace Rhetoric, 1908-2008. $39.99 Hardover. 600 pages. Herald Press, 2011

Burton's Blog

Funny Things, Family Memories

Burton Buller

In this week’s program, Ervin Stutzman talks about growing up without a father and how important it was to reconstruct a memory, even a highly mediated and rather synthetic memory, of his father by researching and writing a book that recalled his extended family’s memories of his father, Tobias.

Continue Reading

Next Week

Faith and Suicide. Fred and Gail Fox were stunned to lose one of their adult sons to suicide, but early on decided to be very open about what had happened. The Foxes share part of their story, especially how the loss of their son impacted their faith and how they coped. Earlier they participated in the TV documentary, Fierce Goodbye: Living in the Shadow of Suicide.

Favorite Family Recipes

Nutty Broccoli Slaw

Nutty Broccoli SlawDorothy Hartman got this recipe from a friend after tasting it when she brought the salad to a church fellowship meal and then found one almost like it in one of her Taste of Home cookbooks.  Dorothy says, "The dressing has just the right combination of vinegar, oil and sugar to suit my taste. I like to serve it with pork and potatoes."  
Continue Reading

Current Offer

The Shaping Families free offer from this week’s program is no longer available. Visit our online store at www.MennoMedia.org/store if you would like to purchase the item offered. Some items are not offered on the store.