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Grief and Grace

“I called him on his cell phone, and didn’t get an answer so I called on my cell phone—I thought both phones were in the van—and got the paramedics on the other end, and they said your husband’s been in a bad accident, come to the hospital.” —Rose Shenk

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Harvey Yoder

I’m always moved by stories like those of my friends Edith and Rose, such powerful examples of how grace can break through in the most devastating of losses. It also reminds me of how short and uncertain life really is, and of how much we need to cherish our loved ones every day.

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This Week's Resources

Beyond the News: Facing Death website. Resources on planning a funeral, stages of grieving, advanced directives, organ donation, and check lists to use.
 
Beyond the News: Facing Death. Three families tell their stories of facing issues surrounding death and dying in this 34-min. video with study guide. DVD contains additional bonus content which includes: Planning a funeral; Hospice care; What about physician-assisted suicide? and Talking to children about cancer & death.

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WEBSITE

Mennonite Weekly Review article on Rose Shenk’s journey and new marriage.
 
BOOKS
 
Grief and Sexuality: Life after Losing a Spouse. Rachel Nafziger Hartzler. Herald Press. Half of all married people will lose a spouse to death. Although no one can fully prepare for such a loss, this book provides a glimpse through the stories of widowed people, all woven into Rachel Nafziger Hartzler's own story. $14.99
 
A Healing Grief: Walking with Your Friend through Loss. Sara Wengerd. Herald Press. Sara Wengerd had years of experience with death via her work as a hospice nurse and caring for the elderly. Then it happened to her. Beginning with her husband’s accident, through the first day, the funeral, and the next two years, Wengerd illuminates the grieving process with heartfelt and surprising candor. $9.99
 
Long After I'm Gone: A Father-Daughter Memoir. Deborah Good. Herald Press. The voice of a father, Nelson Good, intertwines with that of his young adult daughter, Deborah Good, as he fights the cancer that will kill him. The resulting memoir provides an unusual combination of a father’s history-telling, as he tells stories about the seven projects, communities, and organizations he has cared about, together with a daughter’s personal journey of remembrance, loss, and grief. $13.95
 
Dying Well: The Prospect for Growth at the End of Life. Ira Byock, MD. Stories of dying patients and their families’ meaningful experiences. $14.99
 
Deal With It: The Bible on Death and Dying. Rebecca Slough, Ann Bach. Faith & Life Resources. Study for youth on grief and faith. The five sessions discuss the reality of death, questions of despair, depression, and suicide. $12.99
 
Lament for a Son. Nicholas Wolterstorff. Eerdmans. Classic, poignant account of a son’s accidental death, written by Christian philosopher Wolterstorff. $12.00
 
Rafiki: Letters to Omar, sent by Joe Shenk and compiled by novelist Omar Eby, Joe Shenk’s brother-in law. Published by XLibris Corporation. 
 
AUDIO
 
Audio interview with John and Sandy about her cancer diagnosis.
 
Radio spots on healing from grief, Glimpses of Hope. Scripts and audio.
 
CD: Abide With Me: Hymns of Comfort and Hope. 25 a cappella favorites of the church, selected especially for those walking through grief. $12.95.

Burton's Blog

Grief is a Journey, Not an Event

Burton Buller

One of the tribulations of this life is dealing with grief. It’s not a pleasant thing. It brings life to a standstill. The pain can be almost unbearable. Loss of a loved one stirs up so many complex emotions that one is at a loss to know how to handle them.

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Next Week

For many of us, having a leg amputated would spell the end of many dreams. For Josh Sundquist, it was just the beginning and launched a direction for his life. Since losing his leg to cancer at age 9, Josh earned a spot on the U.S. Paralympics team, received his MBA, has become a motivational speaker in schools, and written his first book. He has helped amputees after the earthquake in Haiti, and produces popular, funny and compelling YouTube videos about life as an amputee.

Favorite Family Recipes

Quinoa Salad

Carmen Wyse contributes this recipe which is a family favorite adapted from a Moosewood Restaurant recipe that uses couscous instead of quinoa. Carmen says she likes the quinoa because it makes a good, healthy, high protein dish.

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